ok. See, I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years now. She has helped me in so many ways. She helped me gain joint custody of my daughter, helped me get my GED, etc. She%26#039;s always there for me. I have been a total A-- in so many ways that it%26#039;s hard to even explain. On our anniversary, I decided to have drinks with some guys that I work with for a little while before (about 2 hours before dinner reservations). Well, we ended up late, because of me. I didn%26#039;t buy her anything. I%26#039;m not good at picking stuff out, so that%26#039;s a good reason right? She doesn%26#039;t like to pick out her presents and holidays and b-days and anniversaries mean a lot to her. Should I have bought her something? Any ideas? If someone states jewelry, please be specific as she has a lot of jewelry. no flower ideas plz. If these things mean more to her than they do to me should I just ignore the holiday or what should I do? Should I go ahead %26amp; get her something even though it%26#039;s late or forget it?
What should I buy my girlfriend of 6 years for our anniversary?
After 6 years and her putting up with all of that...a wedding ring would probably be a good idea!!!
For future things you could do what I do. 1. write it down so you don%26#039;t forget it! 2. make her your priority for that whole day! No one and nothing takes priority over her and what she wants that day. Everything else can and will wait. 3. Find a female friend to help you pick out a gift with you. I have a friend that I always ask for advice. Just say, %26quot;she like this and this and has always wanted this...%26quot; most girls are happy to help with stuff like that.
Wow dude...I don%26#039;t consider myself to be Casanova but even I know that you don%26#039;t get an engagement ring at WalMart! Its like you aren%26#039;t even trying to show her that you care about her!
Get a real ring, the best you can afford. Take her to dinner, call the restaraunt make reservations (a nice one, not mcdonalds) and let them know you plan on proposing to her. Typically they can help you with this to make it special. ie. get you a private table, have the waiter put the ring in the champagne glass etc. It would be easier to give you ideas if you told us a little about her. For example, if she like horses one way to propose would be to go horseback riding and propose in a remote area on a trail. If she like baseball do it at a baseball game. Get creative! She has put up with a lot from you and you can make it up to her with a great proposal.
Reply:I think you should ask her to get married to you and you could get her an engagement ring. Try http://www.b2cjewels.com/engagementrings... for the engagement ring. They have a good collection at a good price. If you think it is not yet time to get married but still want to buy her some jewelry piece, you can find it on http://www.b2cjewels.com
Reply:A wedding Ring
Reply:A proposal and a nice big ring
Reply:ask her to b ur wife...dont you think its time?
Reply:Maybe a genuine gift would do.
How about taking initiative and bettering your relationship. She has done so much for you and it%26#039;s good that you realize it. A gift now will seem ummm like a pitty gift. Now that you know you have screwed up and she Still stays with you, you need to show her she belongs in a pedastool. Put guy time and self-indulgence on the side for now. Open the door for her, look her in her eyes and smile just because, cook her-her favorite meal (even if you can%26#039;t cook, give it a good try). Basically, try to charm her like if you met her for the first time and just had to get to know her. Get my drift? Now, when you%26#039;ve got all that going, keep it up. :) This is not a one day thing. You don%26#039;t always have to be mushy but, throw in a few romantic things here and there as the relationship progresses. Once you feel like you can keep it up and you two are solid, then do your special proposal
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