How would you feel if your b/f never gave you flowers?

i been with him for a long time and in all that time he has never once given me flowers i wish he would do this i think he could buy me at least a cheap boquet to show me he cares for me and as a surprise sometime or at least when we have an anniversary or something my birthday even? or when he knows i have been sick and not up to par? or simply to show me he is thinking of me?





how would you feel if your b/f never did this for you?

How would you feel if your b/f never gave you flowers?
well mine has not given me flowers, but i do not think it is a big deal. would it be nice if he ever did surprise me with some well i wont lie yes it would be as i have never been given flowers from a man in my life. in fact i have never been sent flowers by anyone in my life, so if someone did this for me i would love it and it would mean a lot to me.


but flowers are not everything, does he kiss you? does he hold your hand? take you to dinner? cook dinner or another meal for you? surprise you in other ways?


some guys just are not that romantic by nature, or like i saw someone else say here they may not have money to waste on frivolous things like flowers.


and besides time spent with your man should be way more important than if he gives you flowers or other gifts.





and you can give each other things that don%26#039;t cost money and things that come from the heart mean much more than material things do.





don%26#039;t be selfish, if you love him just accept him for what and who he is and maybe just maybe he shows you romance in other ways so he don%26#039;t think he needs to show it to you by giving you flowers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:your welcome, i%26#039;m glad that you asked him that was the only way you were gonna find out. and i do hope everything works out for you. remember be open and honest always!!!!!!!!!!!! Report It

Reply:Do you feel his love in other ways, Flowers are no big deal, and they look like death when you have to throw them away. Have you seen the flowers when they look like that? I%26#039;d rather take the garbage out for a month than take dead flowers out of vase and into the garbage can. Please be thankful for the boy friend you have, there are so many girls in yahoo world who are crying that they don%26#039;t have a boyfriend or boyfriend has moved on.


God bless.
Reply:you%26#039;re not alone i also experience the way you do but you have to ask yourself is things makes you happy or the love the actions he shows?maybe your bf is not materialistic thats why.What%26#039;s important is how he shows the love.What is flowers, chocolates,rings if he is not faithful
Reply:It seems God made a man to be unromantic! That%26#039;s why when you find one, he%26#039;s a keeper so if you want him to do these things (romantic), you must just come straight out and tell him..%26quot;Baby, why do you NEVER give me flowers, even on special occasions?%26quot; Make sure you asked him when you%26#039;re snuggled close to him. Then he%26#039;ll give you that %26quot;What!?%26quot; look. So, you repeat it...and repeat it..and repeat it daily, if necessary, until he gets what you said. Enjoy!
Reply:im the opposite...im tired of flowers...i get flowers when we argue, flowers when im sick, flowers when he ***** up, flowers when im at work, flowers for no reason, flowers, flowers, flowers! id love some chocolate or something lol but i agree flowers are nice..sometimes... = / why dont you hint to him like when you go out say wow those flowers are beautiful or the more agressive approach id reallllllly love it if you bought me some flowers *big smile*
Reply:This happens to me all the time, and I%26#039;ll tell you the honest-to-god%26#039;s truth - it sucks.
Reply:flowers don%26#039;t matter to me .


I know he loves me
Reply:Hm, well, maybe some guys aren%26#039;t just the overly romantic type, meaning buying the flowers and chocolates, giving cards, etc. Both of the guys that i dated never did that either so I know where you%26#039;re coming from. I did feel a little like I wasn%26#039;t being appreciated and I wasn%26#039;t being courted in a way that i would like to be courted. However, there may be valid reasons why, (money issues, untaught on how to really treat a woman when dating her, etc.) But, if he%26#039;s not taught, then how is he ever going to know? Try to make a point to have him start to do the things you want him to do by dropping hints. (Ex: mentioning your fav. flower, mention that for your birthday it would be nice to have flowers, etc.) By having you drop hints like that and mentioning how it would make you feel happy and appreciated, if he really cares for you, he%26#039;ll get the message and hopefully step up to the plate for you.



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